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Before finding about you, lets define attraction.
What is attraction? Attraction means to draw attention towards you. Others when
they notice you, should feel good and try to find out more about you. They should
come towards you. It is like a magnet attracting iron particles. What about you?
What do others think about you? Has anyone
complimented you about your particular qualities? Have you been complimented about
your looks, or attraction? Talk to some of your friends- both men and women. Ask
them about what they think about you. What attracts them towards you and what
repels? Make a list. Look at the positives and try to improve upon them. Look
at the negatives and improve. If needed, take an expert's opinion. Many times,
the problem is that we are so narcissistic that we do not look at ourselves in
totality. Unless you look attractive
to others, you will not make a social impact. Do not dissolve your individuality
but add flavor to it so that others find it more interesting.
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